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QUESTION..How many Mistresses’ have you personally seen, who actively encourage you to phone Her for a lengthy chat, ahead of your session?

My guess would be, not very many..right? does Mistress know your deepest desires, NEEDS, want’s, thrills, if you’re not given the opportunity to say so?

Once you clearly demonstrate to Me that you are serious & committed to our session, & most importantly, your deposit has been transferred, We/we will agree a mutually convenient time to discuss in fine detail, all that you wish to achieve in a session with Me.

We’ll phone chat for a least 30 minutes, (all included in your Tribute)..this is our time to get really well acquainted, your time to ask all of your questions, My time to begin to get inside your head..which is of course what you need from your Mistress… our time to plan your debauched & deviant play session..oh yes.

What this DOESN’T mean…is that you will ‘attempt’ to mistake My kindness for weakness…many Knobends have tried & failed miserably…poor fools that they are…yet, this is not how you behave right? You show Me respect & it will be reciprocated My willing slave.

We are about to enter into a very erotic & intimate adventure together…help Me to understand you….& you will be rewarded tenfold…

Until We/we speak…


A testimonial from a recent client visit to Mistress Empathy and Domina Zephyr

It was 12:00 noon when I made the call as instructed by Mistress Empathy. I was a voluntary patient in the Empathy Asylum.

I was invited into the clinic where I met the lovely T Girl Zephyr and the beautiful Mistress Empathy who were to be my nurses for the next 5 hours. I was shown to an imposing cell downstairs in the cold cellar where I was told to strip off everything except my panties which were holding may sanitary towel in place and wait for my nurses to return.

I didn’t have long to wait, out of the cell I was ordered and immediately given my pre-med to calm my nerves and prepare me for what was to come. I was then clothed in the tightest fitting leather straight jacket ever. Zephyr didn’t hold back, I was fitted with a rubber hood and ball gag and given a chemical enema and placed in a nappy and plastic pants – both nurses admired my attire.

What came next shocked me, I was marched off and placed in a padded cell, laid face down and my legs bound together, as the door shut I realised there was no escape the clutches of these two nurses.

As the pre-med kicked in everything seemed peaceful and serene, it was then that Nurse Empathy came in and I was given no option but to breath in some other chemical which sent my head in a spin. Where was I, what was happening to me? It was then that I was released from my bonds and taken to the operating theatre, more pre-med was given to me and I was dressed in a theatre gown and cap and ordered to lie down on the operating chair. I was strapped in, first the arms and then my legs, supposedly for my own safety but as I found out the Nurses had an ulterior motive.

The black mask was firmly strapped on and with Zephyr at the controls, the oxygen started to flow and then the gas was added, I was drifting away and not aware of my surroundings anymore. My knickers and sanitary towel were removed and catheters were inserted. Nurse obviously had a taste for my blood as she inserted a cannula and let the blood pour out onto a new sanitary pad, as she slipped my knickers back on it was a wonderful experience having a bloody sanitary pad rubbing up against me.

It was time then for Nurse to provide me with a permanent reminder of my visit, a nice deep cut with the scalpel and some sutures, again the gas flowed and it ensured I didn’t feel a thing, it was truly wonderful to wake up and to have a deep cut in my leg without even feeling it happen.

I was sent home in my sanitary pad, leg bandaged up and a nice pair of back zipped leggings on, I felt like a real girl. I am hoping that on my next visit, Nurse will be able to give me some silicone breasts.

Both Mistress Empathy and Zephyr are forces to be reckoned with and not to be underestimated.




REMEMBER, you come to Me because I instinctively know how to fulfill your deepest darkest fantasies. I understand not only your fetish need, also your deep psychological & emotional need. You choose to come & session with Me because you know that I totally ‘get you’, that without question, I’ll take you to amazing places & give you experiences, that until now, existed only in your mind. I make them your reality, resulting in pure, unadulterated, delicious, floaty sub-space.


As an edge player, I routinely take My fabulous edgy clients & patients to oblivion & beyond. Be it with anaesthesia roleplay, advanced breathplay, probing medical techniques, full body bag bondage…My repertoire is extensive & I excel in My craft.




Quite simply put…you stay with Me for at least 30 minutes. Whilst you’re re-hydrating after your period of nil by mouth, & boosting your blood sugar levels with My delicious choccy bars, I cast My expert Mistress eye over you, ensuring that you are perfectly safe to leave My chambers. I love that we get to debrief our session & plan towards our next session together, or put the world to right’s, or just chat about random stuff. Either way, we’re strengthening our bond & deepening My understanding of you & your needs. Under no circumstances do I permit My clients & patients to leave without receiving their aftercare, non negotiable.


Excellent, ethical aftercare, is what puts the ‘Professional’ into Professional Dominatrix…which is precisely what I am & don’t you know it…



I call Her ZEPHYR, She’s My partner in life, My partner in kink & now, (by prior arrangement), My partner in session.


She & I each share the same deviant mind, therefore, to join us for a Double Domming session means that you get twice the thrill, twice the attention, twice the kink, twice the fact..twice the everything.


Don’t underestimate Her, She understands you better than you understand yourself. This beautiful TGirl will totally open your eyes with Her incomparable medical play skills & anaesthesia roleplay experience.


How blessed you will be, when We allow you to witness Our unbelievable intimacy & powerful Dominant connection.


Imagine now, exactly how you will feel, when We escort you into our Empathy Asylum Clinic….

Notice what you see… smell… & hear…

It’s dark, but for the focus of the dentists’ light illuminating our intoxicating medical machinery. Our original surgical steel hospital trolley, covered in carefully laid out medical kit, suture packs, cannula’s, catheter’s, e-stim, surgical steel sound’s… just a small example of what We’re very capable of….


Then there’s the smell..a mixture of antiseptic & strong disinfectant, you know the says HOSPITAL or DENTIST…


That beeping sound, you know the one… it say’s monitoring equipment…


Now it’s time for Zephyr to help you into your freshly laundered hospital gown, neatly & deftly tying the straps to protect your modesty…not for long however…


Into leather bondage she places you…let the adventure unfold………….


Mistress Empathy xx









I’m calling him Joe, that’s not his actual name, it’s My way of preserving his identity & modesty.


Joe’s a repeat client, returning to Me for his second session over several months. He’s an ‘old school’ gentleman by character & a man of few words. That said, he’s exceptionally deviant in his thinking & his list of kinks is extensive to say the least!!


So, the witching hour arrived, just a couple of days ago in fact, & Joe arrived, promptly, on time, carrying a fabric shopping style bag. After greeting Me with a kiss to My cheek, (yes, I do occasionally allow this), he informed Me that he had something for Me. Well… I was thinking ‘Flower Bomb’, My favourite perfume, result! Alas, I was wrong, Joe had brought clear plastic bags & a roll of duct tape…he knows Me so well, the Miss Edge-player that I am. Naturally, I made My feelings very plain & I have zero doubt the full gift set will be arriving pronto!


Our session included:- said use of bag & tape, gas mask & breathing tube together with full body bag & leather strap bondage, prolific use of imported poppers, nipple torture, (with screams), rope bondage, wrist to neck bondage, with total deprivation hood during a blackout spell in the padded cell & even more poppers, anal stretching/examination & electrics with the added element of ball gag & blackout goggles. We used the fetters room & full cellar dungeon. A veritable smorgasbord in fact, 3 hours of debauchery & deviance.


We ended our session in My medical clinic, (Empathy Asylum). Joe was bound in My dentists chair, lights dimmed with only the overhead light casting an eerie shadow, electrics zapping his manhood, ball gag in situ. The look on his face was one of pure bliss, I felt privileged & proud, in equal measures to be in that room with Joe. Allowed into his private sanctum, his inner world. That’s what being as Mistress is all about to Me. Understanding My clients’ needs & delivering on them.


Joe, sent Me an email that night, here’s a brief excerpt:


“I would like to take this opportunity to thank you for the wonderful session with you yesterday. I think we both agreed that all the buttons were pressed  & that I assume You enjoyed it as well? I enjoyed our little chat afterwards, shame it could not have been longer. It’s good to share conversation with someone else who is prepared to listen & offer advice. Once again, thank you for the wonderful session, apologies for the embarrassment of the tape & bags, don’t know what I was thinking of”


Joe had to rush away at the end of our time together due to work commitments, which was such a great pity. I always spend at least 30 minutes with each client after our session, we sip sweet delicious drinks, eat chocolate, discuss today’s session highlights & begin to plan for our next meeting.


This is the very reason I choose not to session all day every day, or just for financial reasons….I simply couldn’t….end of.


Being an effective, ethical & profound Mistress is My passion. Mistress is what I AM, not ‘what I do’.


I dedicate this to each & every one of My amazing, faithful clients, you know who you are,


Mistress xx






At the beginning of each month, I’ll post a list of dates, outlining My availability.


Naturally, as My clients & patients secure their time with Me, those dates inevitably disappear.


I don’t session everyday, I have private therapy clients & fetish therapy clients who come to Me for My help & guidance too.


Please remember, all of My sessions last a minimum of 2 hours, I NEVER rush a session.


JUNE 2017

I have a few limited sessions available this month, some during the week & some at the weekend. I don’t have any more evening appointments left this month, My regular clients have grabbed them all as usual!!


Because the service that I offer is very ‘personal, niche & exceptional’, I do get booked up very quickly indeed. Therefore, I recommend that you grab these appointments whilst you can. My reputation as a refined & very experienced Dominatrix is second to none. You WILL phone Me, you always do.


I’m so looking forward to hearing from you My slave………








Well, how about we start with what you really DON’T need?


Seeing the previous client leaving, just as you arrive, like you’re on a client conveyor belt.

Lack of discretion & privacy.

A Mistress who hasn’t made sufficient effort with her appearance, like it’s just Her job

A Mistress who watches the clock, more than She watches you.

The list is endless………& for many clients, this is the standard norm.



I only see one client per day, & that’s not every day by any stretch. I choose not to.

The reason?

Well, that’s quite straightforward…

I never ‘go through the motions’ with My clients. Yes, I’m a Lifestyle Domme, a pure fetishist, very kinky, dark, deep & sensual. Yet, My total aim during our session, is to ensure that you have the best & most amazing experience ever, with lots of kinky memories to dine out on, in your mind, for quite some time to come…& you will…be sure of it.  From the minute you arrive, to the minute you head for home, you are My one & only focus.


Be it pure BDSM or anaesthesia roleplay with hypnosis, you WILL feel very special indeed. This Mistress will not settle for less, ever.


Now that’s what I call a true Mistress xx









Delighted to share, that Rubber Rebellion 2 was a massive success! My ambassadors did Me proud with rope & violet wand demos. Our rope bunny was transformed into Jesus Christ on the cross, complete with red soya candle wax on his hands & face, topped off with a crown of thorns. Awesome spectacle, well done to My No.1 girl for her fab creative display.


Then there was the most theatrical violet wand demo. The lights were dimmed, the heavy, moody music with deep base rhythms filled our ears. Our rope bunny is only 3 months into the scene, he was a brave boy indeed as sparks literally flew. Shackled to the cross, feet & ankles, face covered with a full shiny latex hood, he quivered with sensual delight before our very eyes. Oooh how I enjoyed Myself!


Our partygoers were resplendent in their shining rubber finery. They moved with grace & ease, fitting their second skin perfectly.


As for our beautiful plus size models….well…they strutted their confident stuff, drenched in the most bespoke & couture gowns. How I love to enable fellow fetishists to walk tall & come alive….


Talking of which…. I treated My partygoers to an intense & personal medical scene, with the help of My masochistic victim.


Filling My clinic with a blue hue light, I thrust him into My dentists chair, poppers mask pressed firmly onto his fearful face. Slowly & deliberately I secured black leather bondage straps around his entire body, including his throat & head. He needed chastising, slap as My hand struck his face repeatedly. Now your place slave. Tearing open the antiseptic swap, I cleaned an area on his chest, ready for what was to come next….large gauge needles, three of them. This was just a teaser, I had bigger plans for him. My assistant passed over My bubbler bottle, the delicious aroma of poppers filled the air, as using My syringe I added a large fill to the bottle. With My rubber surgical mask, I covered his face, demanding he take 3 very deep breaths. He had no choice but obey Me. As he shivered & floated away on My poppers brew, I sterilised both of his nipples & without so much as a moments hesitation, I forced My needles through both, as he screamed out ‘Mercy My Goddess’. His words were wasted on Me, as I attached My most evil nipple clamps to both of his pierced nipples & tugged firmly on the connecting chain. His screams were blood curdling, just as I love them to be from My slaves. One more round of My bubbler bottle saw him finished..he was done…unable to take any more of My sadism….perfect, just perfect….

Listen to Mistress Empathy

You can now hear me on my homepage. Click to hear commanding, velvety voice. Prepare to be captivated.

Breathplayers, have you seen my new erotic breathplay page yet? I suggest you go there now you deviant, IT WILL LEAVE YOU BREATHLESS!


For all you fans of ANAESTHESIA ROLEPLAY…have you ever dreamed of how it might feel to combine it with deep hypnosis?


I love My edgeplay, I’m known for it & I love it with a passion! For some time now, I’ve been using My background in hypnosis, combining it with this beautiful form of roleplay & the results are outstanding. (See My client testimonial), here on My blog page.


Whilst inhaling My sweet aroma’s, you will travel to your very own secret, familiar place. You know what I mean by this right? Often you are there alone, & using My honed skills, I take you from the ‘fear zone’, into the ‘erotic zone’. Again, you understand Me right?


Imagine for Me now, how it would feel to combine this with Me speaking My delicious hypnotic words into your ear. Words that are totally specific to you & you alone. Words that I have created, based on your deepest want’s & needs. Feel yourself drifting deeper & deeper & deeper as I join you in your own personal wonderland. All the while, knowing that you are in the very safe & experienced hands of Mistress Empathy. This is like no other before, this is VERY DEEP & INTENSE, you will feel incredible, be sure of it.


So how do I achieve this for you?


Well as you know, I’m a qualified therapist. I know what questions to ask, how to get inside your head. I will write a personalised, bespoke hypnosis script, based on our pre-scene phone conversation. Put simply, I elicit all what you want to achieve in our session together & I incorporate it into your hypnosis script. What better way to guarantee the perfect session.